You make friends in a new place by being approachable, taking the first step in conversations, and joining activities where you meet people with shared interests. Almost everyone in a new school or college is hoping to make friends too, so small, friendly efforts go a long way.
Be approachable and friendly. Smile, make eye contact, and be open. People are far more likely to talk to someone who seems warm and relaxed. Simply looking friendly invites others to approach you.
Take the first step. Do not wait for others to come to you, say hi, introduce yourself, sit next to someone, or ask a small question. Most people are nervous too and are relieved when someone else starts. A simple are you also new here can begin a friendship.
Join clubs and activities. Shared interests are the easiest path to friendship. Join a club, sport, society, or study group and you will naturally meet people you have something in common with, which makes conversation effortless.
Be genuinely interested in others. Ask people about themselves and listen. People warm to those who show real interest in them. Friendship grows from genuine curiosity, not just talking about yourself.
Example: A first-year student in Bengaluru who was shy started by greeting a few classmates daily and joining the college photography club. Through shared interest and small consistent chats, he built a solid group of friends within a couple of months.
One practical tip: Start with just one person, you do not need a big group overnight. Find one classmate to talk to regularly, and friendships often grow from there. One genuine connection makes a new place instantly feel less intimidating.